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THE CRIME
To begin be important to define what we mean by infidelity. We could say that the sexual encounter and / or psycho outside the relationship.
According to our Western society, the way we think our partner marriage or monogamy. Since very little we are culturally conditioned as only valid form of relationship. But we must not forget that there are different types of cultures where monogamy is not the only form of relationship.
our culture to the marital relationship or relationship is based on a sort of exclusivity agreement in no way transgressed. This is a kind of agreement between the parties, where the mere fact of breaking it would cost to pay.
Infidelity can occur:
1) For a single approach to sexual type that can be casual or not.
2) As a result of marital or relationship conflicts, which are involved not only aspects or sexual passion but also sentimental, the search for a better chance of communication, feeling loved and respected, and so on.
3) To reduce frustration and dissatisfaction that produces the relationship with his partner. This is
cushioning the plight that he lives with his spouse.
4) Sometimes people feel threatened his freedom or the chance to do what
want and resort to alleged infidelity as a liberation.
5) There are cases where looking at infidelity as a way to raise self-esteem, image
personal and recognition.
6) As a lifestyle, where the trick the other is taken with absolute
normal. Not only that we see in infidelity but also in other areas of
person's life (social, intellectual, economic, etc).
Some suggestions may be helpful
1 ) Recognition of infidelity:
The recognition of a fact, we get in the way of change. We all know very well that the truth is often a very bitter pill to swallow, but it's very liberating.
2) not forget that each behavior has cost our
This means that although it is very good to recognize that we have been unfaithful, does not exempt us from paying the cost of such behavior. Many times the cost of our behavior, we do learn a little more each day.
3) Keep in mind our commitment and responsibility
We have more awareness of our commitment to our partner and what we feed daily. The couple's relationship is built day by day. We know that destroy some may take a few minutes while building takes us a lifetime.
4) be true to ourselves
be true to ourselves means not divide and fragment us. When we split we and feel in one way but act another. In the authenticity think, feel and act in unity. This means that if you really feel that love has left us, inform our partners in the best way possible and as honestly would not have to resort to infidelity.
5) The possibility of forgiveness
Each be human fingerprint is different, so the possibility of forgiveness is individual.
One will have to see if you can forgive infidelity, but not only from the head, but also from the heart. Forced or obliged to forgive, often not a good decision, because within us we are still very sore. There are wounds that take longer than others to heal.
6) Putting in place of another or empathy
psychoemotional The fact get in the place of another, we would feel a little to sit in a situation of infidelity. So, Do not do unto others what you would not want done to yourself.
Roberto Tirigall
Psychologist, writer and lecturer International
TEL / FAX: (787) 982-0029
E-MAIL: rtirigall@onelinkpr.net
WEBSITE: www.robertotirigall.com
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