The man and woman are opposites that complement
has often been focused on the link man and woman, just as a relationship between
opposites. That's why on this one look or perspective, the conflict between
men and women seem inevitable. However, we have a way to
perceive the relationship that is not originated in the struggle of opposites. This other form or manner, is the opposite be complementary.
Then we develop some general characteristics pertaining to man and woman:
WOMEN
1) descriptive Communication: Communicate describing more situations in detail.
2) Asked Questions: It is common to ask more, because they love the details of the events.
3) can share feelings spontaneously : Share feelings and emotions you may be very simple to do.
4) prevails over emotional : The emotional has on their lives worth leading.
5) need to be heard : They can communicate what is happening without having to find solutions, so they want to be heard.
6) I like romance: are very interested in knowing how a couple met and every detail.
7) Looking become closer: They are attracted to know everything you feel and wish her lover. To learn more about your partner need to have more privacy.
MEN
1) binary Communication: Binary means that if you ask them something saying yes or no answer without adding much explanation.
2) Many questions were put defensively, With so many questions, can feel like questioning, hence automatically generated as a defense mechanism and the answers are very short. It is sometimes bothered by having to answer.
3) Reflect more before expressing their feelings: express The fact
feelings spontaneously gives them a sense of vulnerability, therefore need reflect more what they feel.
4) are more logical and rational: often find a greater prevalence of logical and rational over the emotional.
5) listen to provide solutions: Listen without giving advice or solutions
find it difficult. Understand that you are not always asking for solutions, but can learn to listen.
6) The challenges attracts and challenges: Les love action movies,
war or adventure and anything which shows a tendency to challenge or to challenge.
7) want to have control and power: Many women often say that the control
TV remote it always manages her husband or partner. It is a true example of seeking power and control.
As suggestions would tell the men to learn to listen to their wives without wanting to provide solutions and allow them to express more feelings without thinking much.
remind them that as far as possible try not to burden his family with so many words and reflect a little more about the feelings that come to the surface.
Instead of taking the man or woman as an irreconcilable opposite, judging, or divorced, what if both men and women or women and men see each other as opposites that complement each other?
produce what is now called synergy which is nothing more nor less than the energy integration or complementary forces aimed at achieving an energy or force, more powerful and superior.
"Imagine a world where women and men walk together, taking it
best of himself and learning each other?
soon come a time when both would get the much prized harmony.
Roberto Tirigall
Psychologist Writer and International Speaker
Psicomeditación Author of books, and
Secrets of Mind.
TEL: (54-11) 4644-2562 and fax: (54-11) 4454-0652
E-MAIL: robertotirigall @ hotmail . com
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