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difficult thing is the human relationship

One of the topics that are always to take into account are the relationships. already said it as an existentialist philosopher Sartre: "Hell is the other." If only we let ourselves go with our views, we can pass as Doña Filomena. This lady looked at the clothes hanging in the sun from its neighbors and continuing to critical as: Those clothes are dirty, you have two black spots, etc.. While condemning her neighbors approached him Doña Juana, his great friend, with great innocence, he said, What happened to your glasses, which are stained with black ink?. This story shows us that many times we or project onto others, our miseries. In this case, not only clothing was not dirty, but that Filomena had his glasses dirty. SUGGESTIONS

1) UNDERSTANDING: An understanding that each person has their own glasses or views that are as valuable as ours. But if we are convinced that we have the only truth, communication is not possible, because one of the parties, thinks he knows the truth and the other knows nothing.

2) LEFT SIDE PRIDE: When we begin to leave some positions of pride and arrogance that we have and we can replace the love and humility, it is possible there is a change in our relationships.

3) DO NOT BE A WALL: If we defend an idea or thought at any cost, without any consideration or reflection, we run the risk of becoming fools. is in this case when we become walls that are impossible to pass, with an external hard appearance, which prevents let our fears and weaknesses. It's obviously very difficult to communicate with a wall, I would say almost impossible.

4) BECOME A DOOR: The possibility of being like a door leads to different sites, since is always open and makes our way of life learning. It seems very vulnerable to be like a door, since anyone can enter or leave, but actually quite the opposite, and learn from each other as they entered they know they can go smoothly. The metaphor of the wall and door meant us that: The position of strength and stiffness wall leads to internal stagnation, while the flexibility and openness of the door, leads to personal growth.

Roberto Tirigall

Psychologist, Author and International Speaker

Psicomeditación Author of books, Psicobelleza and Secrets of the Mind

http://lossecretosdelamente.blogspot.com